Soulful Strides: Holiday Stress, Gail Marie’s Legacy, and Practical Gifts
December 2023
It’s that time of the year again, folks! The Thanksgiving leftovers are barely in the fridge before we’re off to the races, sprinting towards Christmas. The holiday season can be a whirlwind of joy, but it can also be a tornado of stress, especially for those of us who have lost loved ones.
December, for me, is a touching reminder of my mom, Gail Marie, who had a knack for turning Christmas decorating into a competitive sport. Gail Marie was a powerhouse of a woman, and
Christmas was her time to shine. Her approach to
decorating wasn’t just festive; it was a military operation. Every ornament had its designated spot, and tinsel was to be draped with surgeon-like precision. As stressful as it could be, with her gone, I find myself missing those high-strung moments.
On December 9th, we mark the day she left us, eight years ago. To honor her memory, we’ve carried on her extravagant Christmas traditions without the yelling (LOL). We adorned our home with her over-the-top decor so that her grandkids, nieces, siblings, and everyone she touched can feel her presence during this special time of year.
Now, speaking of presence, I mean PRESENTS… lets talk about the stress that often comes with
gift-giving. This year, I’ve decided to take a different approach – a stress-reducing approach.
Instead of waiting in lines, paying shipping fees, or even tracking shipments, I’m opting for practicality and usefulness and giving out cold hard cash.
Part 2 Gift ideas
Here are some tips for a stress-free gift-giving
season:
1. Practical Over Extravagant: Consider gifts that will genuinely improve the recipient’s life. Think about their hobbies, interests, or everyday needs.
2. Homemade Love: Get crafty! Handmade gifts often carry more sentimental value than store-bought ones.
3. Gift Cards: If you’re unsure about someone’s preferences, gift cards can be a lifesaver. Let them choose what they truly want or need.
4. Experiences, Not Things: Give the gift of experiences like spa days, concert tickets, or cooking classes. Memories last longer than material possessions.
5. Simplify Traditions: Discuss simplifying gift-giving expectations with your loved ones. Maybe it’s time to focus on quality time together rather than piling up presents.
As for me, I plan to decompress from the holiday rush with a little yoga, savor my mushroom coffee, and leave the shopping to someone else. This Christmas, my husband and I decided to gift each other something more meaningful – new bedroom furniture to create a cozy retreat in our bedroom.
In the words of Matthew 11:28-31, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” This December, let’s remember that the true spirit of the season is not found in stress or extravagance but in love, memories, and the simple joy of being together.
Merry Christmas, everyone!
